Thursday, June 15, 2017
It has been nearly six months since I've posted anything on this blog and it's been even longer since I've written anything creatively other than a jotted-down line or paragraph in my phone's Notes section which I hope to come back to and use later. But I haven't. I've simply been storing them up.
It is also interesting, to me at least, to look back and realize that a year ago, I was sitting in a hospital bed, my back aching, eyes red and sore from constant crying, and my brain fuzzy from the information and weighty news it had received approximately a week before. The constant oceanic pulse of my daughter's swift heartbeat filling my small room, the flowers and balloons I had received for my 29th birthday already starting to wilt and deflate.
I didn't know then, that she would come so early but also so perfectly on time. I didn't know I would be flying to what would be my future home in Pittsburgh to stand next to my best friend, my sister as she vowed to love her husband forever. I didn't know this kid would turn out to be one of the best things that has ever happened to me. I didn't know how much I would be changed, how much of myself I miss but also how much of this new self I am proud of and impressed by.
I have always worked hard. I was and am still the girl you call to pick up a shift or ask to help out with some favor or another. But raising this tiny human has given me so much more pride in the work I have done, am doing, and will still do to be a better person, partner, mother and creator during my short time on this earth. She makes me want to be better, work harder, eat kale, run longer, and create. Oh god, does she make me want to create. Now, don't get me wrong. More than anything else, she makes me want to take a nap. However, when it's quiet here in the house, and I've just begun the third load of laundry at 12:47am, I think to myself, if I was able to ACCIDENTALLY create such a magnificent and incredibly wonderful kid, what else am I capable of doing intentionally? How else can I return the favor of being alive and having the joy of mothering this person than to continue to produce other things to bring the same happiness she brings me?
I got my best birthday gift, ten minutes before writing this post. I was given the peace which comes from knowing there is so much beauty left to make and see, because I have the evidence of its existence right now, sleeping in a crib above me.